Publisher's Synopsis
Please don't buy this book if you enjoy being stressed and uncertain how to handle your child's tantrums, sensitivity, anxiety, rigidity or apathy and if you are looking for a one size fits all parenting/teaching approach for their difficult behavior. But if you want to transform your relationships, this book will change your FOCUS to see your child's strengths, give you a FRAMEWORK for working with each child and help you FORECAST for what lies down the road. As a parent, I have struggled. I have flipped my lid, helicoptered and embarrassed my kids, (if you don't believe me google "Dancing Mom in Traffic." Because I have struggled as a parent, I want to help other parents struggle...a little bit less! Through temperament psychology and qEEG brain maps, I concluded that my daughter and I are complete opposites. Even though I had over 20 years of experience training both children and adults I was desperately seeking a user manual that would tell me how to work with her, but it didn't exist. Over the last 9 years I have combined extensive research with hundreds of family case studies to create the user manual I had been seeking. This book will help you accurately assess the temperament of each family member, "map" their brain functions and discover how to motivate them and connect with them throughout every stage of their development. I am hoping it will also help you relax when you read about some of my own personal parenting pitfalls as well as many other parents who are on this same journey.In this User Manual you will discover: -assessment tools to help you discover your own true personality type as well as the true type of all the important people in your life-explanation of the four people patterns with relatable illustrations and interactive online activities to get your kids involved-detailed descriptions of the eight cognitive brain functions and how to strengthen them-charts and graphs that will help you map all your family brain functions which will demystify sibling rivalry and family conflict-personality type descriptions for each child to give you appropriate expectations and deeper connections through each stage of their development including teens, college and adulthood-characteristics such as brain functions, motivations, strengths and imbalances for each type and for each stage of their development so you can forecast what lies ahead and help them make better choices-tips for positive parenting that will help your children find more alignment in these areas-hundreds of case studies that address sensory processing, sibling rivalry, inflexibility, ADHD, defiance, aggression, hypochondria, low empathy, perfectionism and many more-step by step instructions for implementing all the concepts with family activitiesFocusing on WHO your child is versus WHAT your child does is the first step for creating a sense of worthiness within your child. BONUS: Effective teaching practices to help teachers understand and work with each child's unique personality type BONUS: Easy to use reference style so you can jump around to the sections that apply to your family or read the whole bookNot only is it necessary to learn how to guide your children, it is also necessary to learn how they can guide you. Parenting is a TWO-WAY STREET!: "Knowledge is power and understanding now how my daughter ticks has transformed our relationship. For the first time since she was a baby, I finally feel like we are connecting! I am her teacher, but because this book I realize that she will be my teacher too. When my daughter is grown and we are (hopefully) friends, it will be in large part because of the information Wendy offers."Kira Dorrian, CHT, BBCE, Parent Coach and Host of Future Focused Parenting "The understanding and validation Wendy Gossett's work has given me is among the greatest gifts I've ever received. Sara Wasser, Founder and Coach Pick up your copy today by clicking the Buy Now button at the top of the page!