Publisher's Synopsis
Most women don't say the challenges they face to keep relationships and marriages. They often make overstretched efforts, to save these relationships, particularly the married ones. They know the pains they feel within, and God knows too. They have terrible times in those relationships because of misunderstanding.Someone said that "women are not rehabilitation centres, psychiatric hospitals or teachers looking for men to fix. What women are looking for are partners in progress," I agree with that. I also believe that good marriages do not happen just like that but built with conscious, determined efforts by both parties, each one playing specific fundamental roles.The previous statements notwithstanding, it is wise for women to understand what Proverbs 24:3 says, "By wisdom, a house is built, and through understanding, it is established; through knowledge, its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures", A woman is a mother and naturally gifted in the forming, nursing taking care of humans and stabilizing homes. Another saying in proverbs 14:14 confirms that the wise woman builds her house, but with her own hands, the foolish one tears hers down. I am convinced again that you are a smart woman and not like the foolish ones that tear her home down. The nature of a real woman is just that of a wise woman that knows who her husband is, understands who he is and with wisdom builds her home with this knowledge and understanding.It will be fantastic if you understand and assume the place of a mother of everyone and check if you can relate to everyone, the way a mother should, to her children. To achieve this, you need to stay in the place of womanliness, take time to remove the coverings from your eyes first and make sure they are not there, before looking to remove the dot from another person's eyes.Quite some women have lost the innate endowments that made them unique, which are for God's purpose and good pleasure. A good number of them, also, do not even understand the stuff they are. I presume you are not like them because I discern you are a real woman.Nevertheless, the woman is like the mother Earth. She is the mother that produces harvest for any seed planted in her. Everyone on the Earth is her child; treat them with love and compassion. Pity them when they do not understand you and are misbehaving. Correct them with respect and let kindness do its perfect works.This book is specifically for women. It is not for pretty reading. It is a study book, to enable every willing woman, rediscover those revered endowments she has, that made her a woman. It will allow you to discover absolute uniqueness, natural and external that made you a woman. God is waiting to see you use that uniqueness and take your proper place on Earth as a real woman. He is expecting you to create an aura of womanliness wherever you are.By this book, you will appraise how wonderful you have played your role in your marriage relationship and improve on it. You will also see some clips of your actions on the screen of life. Life is like a reality show in front of cameras; viewers watch the way you do your things, and how your life affects everything around you.I am not trying to overburden the women from the perspective I know many women might assume me to be. I am not either trying to whitewash the situation to make any man feel he is not a problem or is not a problematic burden borne by the women in marriage. It has never been in my character to substitute the interest of seeing a successful marriage for the aggrandizement of male chauvinism. I wrote this book as a worried individual and a concerned man who strongly believe that the women have all it takes to ensure marriage success more than the men. Please spend some time, have fun as you read, practice some of the new things you learn and be the first to write a review of this book.
