Publisher's Synopsis
Is he a keeper or should you toss him back into the dating pool? You've begun to go out with a man you like but with whom you haven't fallen in love. How do you decide if you should continue seeing him, or to release him because he's not The One? There are things you like about him - maybe even adore - but there are also things that drive you up the wall. Are these deal breakers? Or just reminders that we all have behaviors that loved ones learn to tolerate? Or maybe you're ambivalent - he's a nice guy, he treats you well and shares activities you enjoy. But there's not the spark you want to feel again. You like him, but will you fall in love with him? Real Deal or Faux Beau focuses on second dates and beyond. During the dating process you are both assessing if you want to keep seeing each other. This book helps you determine what questions to ask yourself. Sample topics: - Deciding to see him again or not - What's your date's Delight/Disappointment Scale score? - Broaching tough conversations - "I want to respect me in the morning" - Does he invite you to his place? - Are you stingy in dating? - When his hand is on your knee too soon - Easy way to ask hard questions - Rose-colored glasses obscure red flags - If his stories don't add up, subtract yourself Be forearmed about what you need to continue dating someone, or whether to let him go. Best to take action earlier rather than later if you see signs it isn't going to work for you. Real Deal or Faux Beau will help you make the decision.
