Publisher's Synopsis
Forbearing Parents is a comprehensive guide to understanding and overcoming excessive parental control. The book begins by defining "forbearing parents" and exploring the importance of parental control in child development. It then delves into the causes of excessive parental control, including factors such as parental anxiety or insecurity, past experiences with authority figures, cultural or societal expectations, and family dynamics and parenting models.
The book also examines the effects of excessive parental control on children, including a lack of autonomy and independence, difficulty with decision-making and problem-solving, and negative impacts on mental health and self-esteem. Through case studies and examples, the book illustrates the consequences of excessive parental control and the importance of finding a balance in parenting style. To help parents overcome excessive control, the book offers a range of strategies, including effective communication and setting boundaries, encouraging independence and responsibility, and seeking support from trusted sources such as therapists or parenting groups. It also provides tips for implementing positive parenting techniques, such as using positive reinforcement and practicing open, honest communication. Through a combination of research, expert insights, and real-life examples, Forbearing Parents offers a valuable resource for parents looking to understand and overcome excessive control in their parenting style. Whether you are struggling with excessive control or simply looking to improve your parenting skills, this book is a must-read.
