Publisher's Synopsis
This award-winning book My Imaginary Friend tells the story of Kathann, a seven-year-old girl with a creative imagination. Her imagination helps her cope with the terrible secret of being a victim of sexual abuse. Through her imaginary new friend, Becky, Kathann learns to confront her fears, understand her personal boundaries, and share her secret with a trusted adult.
Told from a child's perspective, this gentle yet powerful story serves as a therapeutic tool for children experiencing abuse. The author skillfully addresses trust issues, fears of speaking up, and the importance of telling a trusted adult through supportive dialogue and relatable storytelling. Heartfelt illustrations guide readers through Kathann's journey toward healing, encouraging children to speak out when they experience molestation or abuse. Kids Will Learn- Understand body safety and personal boundaries
- Understand they are not alone and it is not their fault
- Have the strength to conquer their fears and pain
- How to express their feelings
- Speak up when faced with inappropriate touch situations
- Take the critical step of telling a trusted adult Ideal Settings
- Parent-Child Discussions - Helping navigate delicate conversations with care
- Children's Libraries - Promoting awareness and prevention in a child-friendly format
- Classroom Settings - Aiding teachers in fostering safety and awareness discussions
- Therapy Sessions - Offering a compassionate approach to difficult conversations about sexual abuse Praise from Professionals
- Having worked extensively in my practice with survivors of sexual molestation, I know how frightened and alone they often feel with shame from their secret. This book offers permission and encouragement to reveal that secret, which in turn provides the opportunity to move from shame to healing. Congratulations to the author for helping to break the devastating silence. -Judy Justin, M.A., L.M.F.T., Fallbrook, CA - In a supportive and gentle dialogue, the author raises important issues of trust and fears about the results of telling. With a comfortable and easy-to-read story of strength and encouragement, it not only benefits children who are victims of abuse but will also help other children speak out if something bad happens to them. The story teaches children that they have the strength to tell an adult when someone hurts them. It is also a wonderful way for parents to discuss the topic with their children without scaring them. This book would be a great addition to libraries. -Tracy Roberts, Write Field Services *** 2nd edition, published October 2024
1st edition, published July 2013, now unpublished. Winner of the Skipping Stones Honor Award - 2008
Books selected for this award are evaluated for their literary quality, cultural relevance, and potential to inspire positive values among young readers. The Skipping Stones Honor Award is a respected accolade in children's literature, particularly for books promoting inclusivity, social justice, and environmental stewardship. Author's Note
With the high number of child molestations reported each year, parents must talk to their kids, ask questions, and truly listen. This book has been reviewed by a mental health professional, who highlights its potential to guide children from shame toward healing.
