Publisher's Synopsis
If you're in a relationship and you're thinking of ending it, the toughest part is probably being clean with the person you care about, even if doing so may hurt both of you.
Is there a "proper" way to break up, though?
No two breakups are exactly same, and neither is the timeline in which you must phase in certain actions. Having to break up with someone you care about is never easy, and the process of doing so may be much more emotionally taxing than parting ways. But it's far more challenging for both people when they know the end is coming sooner rather than later. What follows is advice from relationship experts on how to break up with someone you still care about.In the book explains the whole episodes on how to breakup with your loved ones.
Consideration of a breakup with a loved one is never easy. Even if they seem like the finest possible partner on paper, you need to accept the possibility that they are no longer the best partner for you. And just because there aren't any blatant red flags or scandals to force your hand doesn't mean that two healthy, mutually-supportive individuals can't eventually grow apart. Looking for signs of whether or not to give up will often lead to disappointment. Only introspection and honest with yourself can guide you through this crossroad.
Nonetheless, here are some questions to ask yourself if you're having trouble trusting your gut instincts. Do you find yourself always at odds over the same issues, preventing you from making progress or finding a solution? Feel like you can't be your authentic self while you're with your partner? Are you both hesitant to make concessions despite feeling like you're being pushed in opposite directions in life (regarding careers, childrearing, where you are in life, what you want from it, etc.)? Yet, what keeps you both here? You may also want to reconsider your stance if your proposed remedies seem to play to all the wrong reasons to stay with someone (expectations of others, ego, habit, anxieties of being alone, etc.).