Publisher's Synopsis
Are you looking forward to a Perfect Dating? Do you want to pass women's tests by decoding their behavior and effortlessly attracting the woman of your dreams? If yes, then keep reading...
Whether you're a fan of it or not, chivalry is still very much alive and kicking. All women are romantics at heart, and their fairytale romances almost always begin and end with a prince that sweeps them off their feet. They want and desire to be taken care of, and men often feel the reciprocal need to be the protector and caretaker.
Chivalry is in a sense, directly tied to our modern-day conception of romance.
But chivalry is taking care of your woman in the primal way that a man does for his mate... and not in the way that a father takes care of his daughter. Your interactions must straddle the sometimes-thin line between your chivalrous instincts and smothering father territory.
Fathering has the distinct effect of making someone feel smothered and that they are being tracked by someone for their own purposes - not that they are being taken care of and treated like a princess.
For those of you that did not have overbearing fathers growing up, here's what fathers do: ask you where they were, ask you to check in with them, account for time away from them, be overly clingy and focused on you, place their own expectations on you, be preachy about what you're doing and who you're seeing, dote too much, and assume that will be spent together.
Some women ultimately come to the conclusion that they want to marry someone very similar to their father - but absolutely not in this aspect. They spent (around) eighteen years living under the same roof with them and taking orders from them already, they don't want any more!
You will create the same instinct that a woman will feel if you overly dote and become dependent and clingy on her. She'll feel cornered and instantly look for an escape route... and by creating that distance, it instantly turns you into the pursuer. We've gone over why this is a losing proposition for you. She might even lash out against you as a daughter would to her father setting her curfew.
Even if she likes you and doesn't mind the excessive amount of attention and oversight, you create a negative association with each of your interactions - she will feel obligated to spend time with you, and may even do so out of guilt. You're putting your expectations on someone else, and anytime that happens, they will feel burdened to have to live up to them.
Is it positive to have someone spend time with you out of a feeling of duty or guilt? Of course not! Your time spent together and dates should be highly anticipated and looked forward to.
So how does the Jerk Complex treat his mate, where the True Jerk just doesn't care? He protects her, but he doesn't dote on her safety. He takes care of her, but doesn't nag that everything is in order. He protects her but doesn't make her carry her rape whistle. He takes advantage of the romantic side and charming side of chivalry and doesn't stay mired in treating her like a princess. The Jerk Complex can take care of himself, and assumes that his woman can as well.
Your focus should be on romantic gestures that a mate uses for seduction, and not overbearing fatherly gestures that will drive her to rebel against you.
This book gives a comprehensive guide on the following:- How women test men
- What is the behavior of women?
- Be your own man and earn her respect.
- The importance of being self-confidence
- Adding more benefits to your love life with texting
- How to be attractive to women
- How to tell stories that activate her imagination and make her want more
- How to start fun conversations & keep them going
- Making sure you'll do it right
- ... AND MORE!!!
