Publisher's Synopsis
The private Mistress Lady Sas lives BDSM. She writes one of the most popular Femdom blogs in Germany and shares her BDSM expertise in this course.
This book is aimed at Femdoms and subs, singles and couples, beginners and advanced, who are looking for a contemporary course and guide to BDSM. With many helpful tips and countless practical ideas for great sessions and shining eyes. "Femdom Academy" goes far beyond BDSM basics and is also aimed at advanced players who are open to fresh impulses. ContentForeword - 7
Introduction - 9
About the Author - - 9
How Did the Femdom Academy Come About? - - 11
Contemporary SM Instead Clichés from the 90s - - 12
Everyone Has to Find Their Own SM Style - - 14 Lesson 1. The Mindset of a Femdom and a Sub - - 15
Understanding and Living the Femdom Role - - 17
The Intonation of a Femdom - - 19
Why Does a Man Submit? - 20
The Silence Challenge - - 24
The Femdom Mindset - - 28
The Malesub Mindset - - 30
The SSC Principle - 31
The RACK Principle - 33
Short Theory Section - - 35 Lesson 2. The Relationship Between Mistress and Sub - - 38
Rules Help to Distinguish Between Everyday Life and BDSM - - 41
Create Your Own Role - - 45 Lesson 3. Prepare the Session - - 52
The Location - - 52
What Should I Wear? - 55 Lesson 4. Start the Session - - 57
Greeting the Mistress - 58
Practical Tips - - 60
Practical Examples - - 62
A Mistress Needs No Reason - - 63
Topping from the Bottom - - 66 Lesson 5. The Language of a Mistress - 68
Practical Exercise - - 68
Role Models Are Not Always Easy to Find - - 69
The Art of Verbal Eroticism - 72 Lesson 6. One Session and 1,000 Possibilities - - 78
The Most Important SM Practices - - 81 Lesson 7. How to Come up with Creative Ideas for Your Session - - 143
The Mechanics of Imagination: "Carrot and Stick" - - 144
The Idea of a "Challenge" - - 146
The Idea of a "Surprise" - - 147 Lesson 8. Concrete Ideas for Your Session - - 161 Lesson 9. Your Equipment - - 156 Lesson 10: Safety and Communication During the Session - 163
Saying No - - 167
Slave Questionnaire - - 169
Golden SM Safety Rules - - 176
Covering - - 179 Lesson 11: Sexual Gratification - 181
The Orgasms of the Femdom - - 181
The Ruined Orgasm - 185
Forced Orgasms - 186
Prostate Milking - - 187 Lesson 12: Ending the Session - 191
The Follow-up Conversation - - 193
Hygiene - - 197 Lesson 13: Personal Development - 198
Goals for Femdoms - - 200
The Session Log - - 201
The Slave Contract - - 202 Lesson 14: Finding a Play Partner - 220
Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Malesubs - 223
Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Femdoms - - 227 Lesson 15. Happiness in BDSM - 232 Glossary/Terms - 237
Bonus - 250 Reader comments
"A great book that has given me many new ideas and impulses." - Dominatrix Lisa "Very interesting, worth reading for beginners and advanced. Even we, who have been active in this genre for many years, found new inspiration. Clearly structured and logically built, the book is a pageturner." - Manuela "The book describes very sensitively and in detail how a femdom relationship can work best. It reveals secrets of the experienced, charming Lady Sas and encourages the open-minded readers to experience something new on the further way. Very well done and incredibly rich in advice." - Fluffy "Certainly the best book I have read so far on the subject of BDSM. And I have read many." - Mistress Emma
