Publisher's Synopsis
This historic book may have numerous typos and missing text. Purchasers can usually download a free scanned copy of the original book (without typos) from the publisher. Not indexed. Not illustrated. 1854 edition. Excerpt: ... ETIQUETTE. CHAPTER I. DEFINITION OP ETIQUETTE--LETTERS OF INTRODUCTION, AND DINNER PARTIES. Etiquette may be defined as a code of laws that binds society together, --which, viewless as the wind, yet exercises a vast influence on the happiness of mankind. Imagine not that you can be favourably received without some acquaintance with the details of etiquette, nor regard it as a matter of no importance. Etiquette was instituted during the days of chivalry; and, although modified as years passed on, yet, when upheld by sincerity, good sense, and good taste, it is an important element of social existence. First, then, with regard to Letters of Introduction. Let it be assumed that you are come to reside in a new neighbourhood--a stranger; and that friends, feeling for a stranger's loneliness, have obtained for you letters of introduction which may prove either valuable or agreeable. This, of course, involves considerable responsibility on the part of your friends, and requires that you should be found, in every respect, deserving their confidence. If the letters thus given are on business, deliver them without delay. If they are intended as friendly introductions, send them in an envelope with your card. Be careful not to act otherwise, lest you place yourself, and the gentleman or lady to whom they are addressed, in an unpleasant predicament. Imagine the awkwardness of taking such persons unprepared! You, as a perfect stranger, call upon strangers in ignorance of their social habits; interrupted in some employment, the letter may be somewhat coolly received. You, meanwhile, wait like a culprit while the letter is being read, looking somewhat foolish. waiting till you are spoken to. It may happen that, for the writer's sake, you receive a..
