Publisher's Synopsis
*Strong Families Equal Strong Nations*This is a book that will prove very useful for people that aspire to happiness and satisfaction in all their relationships, marriages and effective decision making in life itself. It is a book for intending lovers, those who are struggling, and those who are still navigating around the path of healing.Before you move on or give up, you must find the problem in your relationship. It is only when you see the problem that you can fix it.Relationships can be likened to automobiles in this instance. It needs to be serviced. All the parts that make it up must function properly. If something is not working and the people involved are too lazy or not ready to work at it; it's going to come crashing down. We all know that it is more challenging to fix a dead car than to repair a little mechanical fault as soon as you discover it.Your situation may be quite different from others.You could be in a relationship with someone who doesn't feel as connected as you are to the relationship.At first, it will hurt deeply. You may begin to wonder if you are good enough. You'll have self-doubts and wonder why this person isn't proud of you like you are of them.They don't show you off. They aren't ready to let you into the deepest and darkest places of their lives. They aren't ready to take things to the next level. This could affect your self-image. It will rub off on your self-confidence, and you may start to resent the person you are in a relationship with.While it's easy to be hurt, angry, and upset, when someone is not ready to be committed to you, it has nothing to do with you.One mystery that life has offered us is the inability to get inside someone else's head.It's not possible to truly understand people's motives except when they tell you.This is whyyou shouldn't take the rejection personally.What if they are going through something? What if they aren't ready? These are just 'What Ifs?' But they could be people's realities. Some people are conscientious enough to block you out from whatever they are struggling with.They understand their inner fights.They seek healing and do not want to drag you into it.It becomes essential for them to set boundaries; create a wall and shield their hearts in it. You may think they are cold and unemotional.However, this is their way of blocking you from accessing those parts of them that still hurt.There are people that are hypocritical about it. Although they struggle with something, they are willing to let others in.And they find desperate people to be like prey.They use people's love to channel their pain, and this comes out toxic every time.You will always be at the receiving end of bad energy. There's nothing you will do that could ever be good enough. Once you are done with this set of people, you'll realize that they have transferred their pain to you.The cycle of brokenness is continued.There are people who were broken as children, through physical, sexual or emotional trauma.Until they heal from this trauma they cannot be in a healthy relationship because they are no health. Again, this is not your fault, but don't stay in a codependent or abusive relationship.It is essential to understand that people are at different stages in their lives. When you have feelings for someone, it's easy to remain in a relationship with them even if your relationship has no future.While it's incredible that you are sticking it out against all the odds, you need to ask yourself if that person is even in the same stage of life as you. if you examine this simple guidance from jiro, you will understand why this book is a necessary tool that will help you to identify what stage of life your partner is currently in and how crucial it is for the future of your relationship. it will also help you to have a more fulfilling life
