Publisher's Synopsis
Introduction This book on "The Family of Black Men (Struggle to Succeed)" is a topic for discussing. There are several reasons a Black female never marries: Such as not finding a suitable mate, commitment to career or other personal reasons. But if a successful Black female does decide to get married, there is a dilemma..... The question is, Should I marry into another ethnic group? There are literally thousands of Black marriages today, but they are on the decline. The Black couples eventually will marry are the lucky ones. I am proud of all the achievements Black professional people attain. However, Today's young generation are relented to marry, only cohabitate. What a disgrace to leave a legacy like this. There are no family roots. The trend, I am seeing as I write this book is Black men, who become successful prefer Multiracial or White women for their mate. This leaves the Black female in a dilemma when it comes to finding a suitable mate. How sad!!!!!!!!! Blacks should be proud of their racial heritage and not be ashamed of their mother's roots or where they came from.. Once they realize everything came from Black, they might change their way of thinking. Ponder this paragraph: When role models are presented in a positive way, it will decrease resentment and inferiority from being breaded into a people. When a people discovers positive contributions their forebears contributed to society, it gives hope and pride to them; then they can grasp what the color of Black really means. Today, Black men have the opportunity to become anything they strive to achieve, including the President of the United States. However, they still do not support their Black mothers and Black sisters. who needs a successful Black man in their lives. Black men should look upon their Blackness as strength instead of a weakness. Marry your own kind and keep your lineage strong. However, the stigma of being Black and the lack of knowledge has hindered Blacks, who are blessed with talent and fame to betray their own kind, without giving a Black female any chance to be successful and happy with her own kind. Wisdom to overcome inferiority and cherish your own kind is the only answer for Blacks to be accepted as equals. Finally, thank God for your special gift and be proud of your roots like MLK Jr. and President Barak Obama, who married Black women. Therlee Gipson
